Don't fool me, God!! I am tired of this

Go to ur country. Get a good job. Get a good husband. Live happily ever after.
Today, Duke told me these words.
I am starting to think these elements are essential to be a successful life.
Are a good job and good husband essential to my life??
I told Duke this is a strange conclusion and then he asked me what I expect for.
Yup……Even after several hours, I still cannot figure out what I expect for.
A job is essential for my life. Certainly, I hope that is a good job. However, what is the exactly meaning of a good job? Higher salary?? Or a job which I can obtain achievement?? What do you expect for your perfect life??
On the other hand, what is the exactly meaning of a good husband?? I cannot figure it out too. I was thinking that I wish the guy should also give me the definition about a good husband. I fall in love with one guy, but he doesn’t know that. I know he is a perfect guy for me, because he has a perfect personality and whatever…I like all the way he is. However, he still doesn’t know that and tell me the bullshit theory about a good life. Come on!! Don’t fool me, God. I am tired of this . Don't you think thta you should give me a perfect man as perfect as Duke.